It is an interesting consultation when an astrologer is interpreting the chart for a Scorpio. Until the Scorpio trusts the astrologer, she or he will usually stay very tight lipped about their life. This is to be expected as it is how they will conduct their life with everyone. The astrology behind Scorpio tells us that when it comes to events that are near and dear to their heart they will not disclose what has happened or reveal who they really are until there is a bond of trust.
One of the main questions in the Scorpio's mind is "can I trust you?" In most Scorpio's lives something happened when they were young where they learned that when they opened up and revealed the truth they were punished. Sometimes it is a benign question from a trusted adult, "Sweetheart, you can tell Mommy, did you play with Mommies watch?" and then be punished for playing with the watch. Other times it is more serious, such as telling an adult that an uncle, grandfather, or step father made sexual advances then having that accusation turned against them or not believed. Therefore they adopt a cautious attitude and they need to know that what they reveal will not be used against them.
Another characteristic adopted with the Scorpio is intensity and passion. The Scorpio needs to have something in her life to be passionate about. It is an innate quality of focus. Gone awry it can turn into an obsession, continuing to focus on a relationship with an obsessive streak when it hasn't been resolved or come to closure. The astrology remedy for this is to have something positive to obsess over. As an astrologer I recommend to anyone with strong Scorpio to have a hobby that they can channel their passion into. The energy needs to go somewhere so choose to put it towards an action that is good for you.
Sex is usually associated with Scorpio; it goes hand in hand with the intensity and passion of the sign. Yet the astrology behind Scorpio and sex is the desire to connect and bond with another in a deep and meaningful way. However the Scorpio individual realizes early in life that sex is a mysterious commodity and sexual energy can be used to entice and manipulate.
The Scorpio person will find credit and proper use of credit to be an issue at one point in their life. The fate of Scorpio is to learn how much to share with others, what to expect from others, including using money from others, even when the other is a bank, credit card company, or mortgage company. Therefore it is important to recognize not to get too deep into debt, as being controlled by money is never comfortable but especially not comfortable to a Scorpio.
Control issues are another characteristic of Scorpio. The Scorpio person learns in life what they can control and what is outside of their control. The earlier they learn that lesson the happier they will be. That is one reason why death is connected with Scorpio, death is something we have very little control over, other people die that we care about and we do not have the power or control to change that. Many times Scorpio learns the lessons of control after someone they are close to dies.
Astrology is a great resource to help understand why you do what you do, and why things are your unique trials, tribulations, and lessons. Learn astrology and you can be your own astrologer and use the guidance to find and achieve self awareness and a happier life.
Grab your free astro tips at http://lovinglightastrologer.com Donna Page MS is an astrologer that promotes the ability to create the life you want faster and with ease by becoming in tune with the influence of the planets. She offers free reports on how the planets can impact you personally and globally.